Prepare for your baby's arrival and rest before giving birth
What is a babymoon? Straight from the United States, it's a mix between “baby” and “honeymoon”. The principle is therefore to take advantage of pregnancy to take time for two, before your daily life is turned upside down by the birth of your baby. In the program ? Rest, take care of yourself, enjoy your companion ... all outside the home! To have an unforgettable moment, it is still necessary to organize it well, here are all our tips for a successful babymoon:
When to go in a babymoon?
Pregnancy is a very special time in a woman's life. Psychically and physically upset, each one will experience this period differently. Generally speaking, the first trimester is quite tiring, even punctuated by nausea. In the second trimester, energy returns and the belly is not too heavy: it's the perfect time to move from home and go in a babymoon! As recommended by the Institut Pasteur de Lille, the best time to travel is between the 16th and 28th week of amenorrhea. In the third trimester a short stay near the house is of course possible. The ideal is still to avoid long journeys, especially since some airlines refuse access on board to women from 7 months of pregnancy. The best is therefore to listen to yourself: do not plan your babymoon too far in advance and go with the feeling!
Traveling pregnant
Where to babymoon in France?
Are you more reassured at the idea of staying in France for your babymoon? France is full of charming little addresses for a rejuvenating stay during pregnancy. Know that you can perfectly organize it yourself, for example by renting a cottage. Sea, mountain or countryside? Do as you wish, but choose a cozy place, in a quiet place. To get there, however, avoid driving too much, which is not ideal during pregnancy. And if you want a “well-being” stay, many lodges or hotels offer a Spa, with treatments adapted to pregnant women, which you can usually do with the future dad. An example ? La Bicyclette Fleurie, near Lyon, offers rooms in a cottage surrounded by nature. On site you will find a swimming pool and a Spa with special treatments for expectant mothers.
Getting massage while pregnant
You can also entrust the organization of your babymoon to a specialized agency: they will offer themed stays or weekends, with the presence of specialized speakers or not.
What destinations for a babymoon abroad?
Are you in the form of hell and do not know the ailments of pregnancy? To make the most of your romantic getaway, aim for a European country : romantic destinations abound and the trip will tire you less than a distant trip. As in France, you can choose a small charming cottage in a dream location: Italy, Malta, Greece… anything goes! If you dream of luxury and exoticism, many jurisdictions offer stays suitable for future parents.
Go on a trip together before the baby arrives
You have the time and you want take advantage of your babymoon to discover a faraway country or land on a dream beach? An international stay is possible by taking some precautions. Health level: make sure you are never far from a hospital meeting European standards and select a country with a good level of hygiene. In addition, the Zika virus, which should not be caught while pregnant, is still rife in Latin America and the West Indies, stay informed of the places of contamination before preparing your trip. Also beware of the vaccines to be performed depending on the destinations, as well as in areas where malaria is present.
Our advice for a successful babymoon
A real parenthesis for two, the babymoon is the perfect moment to be in symbiosis in your relationship. The idea is to communicate as much as possible on your personal feelings about pregnancy, but also to prepare for the future. Why not take the opportunity to choose the first name of your future baby? Educational principles, everyone's place… all subjects can be tackled!
From a practical point of view, consider making a visit to your doctor before leaving, you will be more zen if he gives you the green light. And when packing your suitcase, don't forget to take your medical file, it's always useful in case of a problem.
If you want to be pampered during your babymoon and opt for a place with a Spa, some rules must apply :
- ask that the products used be as natural as possible,
- forget the hammam or sauna, strongly contraindicated during pregnancy,
- when making your reservation, remember to indicate that you are expecting a child, and how many weeks you will be during your stay.
Pamper yourself during your babymoon
Finally, if you are flying, even for a short trip, remember to dress comfortably. And if you have circulatory problems due to pregnancy, compression stockings can be very useful (you can also get them prescribed and be reimbursed).
Other ways to make a babymoon ...
Traditionally the babymoon takes place during pregnancy, but you can also innovate! If you dream of having a child but it is slow to settle down, it may be because your daily life is taking up too much space. So why not leave to have a baby? Treat yourself, find yourself in love and leave all your worries aside. The advantage is that all destinations are then possible, pack your bags and enjoy! And, who knows, maybe you will have a nice surprise on your return ...
Traveling with baby
Another scenario: for several reasons, you could not leave during the pregnancy. Baby is here and you are on the move? Take the opportunity to go on a trip! Whether breastfed or not, a little one adapts easily. Prepare your trip well, take basic precautions, and let's go on an adventure!
Ready for a dream babymoon?
You will understand, a babymoon requires a little organization. Corn this magical moment for two will surely be one of the most beautiful memories of pregnancy. Think of yourself, follow all our advice and enjoy! Did you make a babymoon? Tell us all in the comments!
